New Message From Ralph Garman To You
As many of you know, Kevin and Bean team member Ralph Garman and his wife have been going through an extraordinarily difficult month with the premature birth of their daughter Olivia. He sends this new update.
“To my K & B family,
My on-going thanks for your prayers, love, and support. I really thought I’d be back to work by now, and wish I could talk to you all in person.
So many of you have been so kind with your continuing e-mails. They’re all filled with positive wishes and questions concerning Olivia‘s health, so I felt the need to give you an update…”
Click more for the news from Ralph and how you can help.
“I wish I had better news, but, sadly, the situation is that my little girl is still struggling in the neonatal intensive care unit. Everyday is a emotionally challenging battle, but thanks to the support of friends, family, and the K & B listeners, my wife and I seem to somehow find the strength to keep going. The truth is, Olivia shows us everyday what a brave fighter she is, and that makes our troubles seem meaningless in comparison.
Please keep a good thought for her as we go forward, and hopefully we’ll all be celebrating victory over all her health issues soon.
All my love and gratitude,
-Ralph“
Kevin and Bean here again. If you would like to send an email of support, please click here (ralph@kroq.com).
Several listeners have asked for a physical address to mail cards to and KROQ is at 5901 Venice Blvd., Los Angeles, Ca., 90034.
Finally, Ralph has shared with us on and off the air how much he deeply admires the doctors, nurses and staff at Cedars-Sinai Hospital in Los Angeles. They have worked round-the-clock to give Olivia, born nearly two months prematurely, the best possible care 24/7 since her birth.
The hospital has a Grateful Patient program where donations can be earmarked in the name of a loved one, to be used to “make advances in biomedical research, educate tomorrow’s physicians, and continue serving the community for years to come.”
If you would like to make a contribution of any amount, please do so in the name of Olivia’s brother who tragically did not survive. Honor the memory of Lincoln James Garman by clicking here.
Thank you.
Editor’s note:
To read the post leading up to this event, click here.
beanie
April 20, 2010 9:04 pm
Its amazing what tremendous strength such a tiny body can posses. She’ll be home in no time
Daniel
April 20, 2010 9:30 pm
Despite all the jokes that go on at KROQ, in all seriousness wishing the best and sending out prayers to Ralph and his wife.
Alex Casas
April 20, 2010 11:25 pm
Ralph, Hang in there… Olivia will make it through.
2gabbygals
April 21, 2010 5:46 am
I am so sorry to hear Olivia is not doing better. I could not imagine the wild roller coaster ride you are on now. No one should have to go through this. You are in my thoughts and prayers
LO
April 21, 2010 5:58 am
My prayers and thoughts are with you, your wife and your little Olivia – your baby sounds like a fighter; she’ll be home soon!
Brian
April 21, 2010 6:05 am
You are well loved by your fans, Ralph. Stay strong and our thoughts are with you!
Elysia
April 21, 2010 6:45 am
Keep on fighting Olivia! You have two parents who want to take you home! Much love to the Garman family, you are all in my prayers!
Sleepy
April 21, 2010 6:55 am
Best of luck and love to you, your family, and mostly Olivia.
She is having the best care possible, and she definately will make it through this trying time.
Stay strong.
Nancy
April 21, 2010 7:11 am
My heart aches – I didn’t know why I didn’t hear one of my favorite voices on the radio (thought maybe he had moved on to another job). Being a mother of twins myself, I cannot begin to fathom the pain Ralph and his family are experiencing. God Bless you
Mugs
April 21, 2010 7:35 am
We love you, Team Garman. <3
Juan Retana
April 21, 2010 7:46 am
Ralph, we have your entire family in our prayers from the first day you let us know what was going on with your family. God will give Olivia the strength to come out of this tough situation. Stay strong my brother…
Rosie
April 21, 2010 7:47 am
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your wife and Olivia. It sounds like Olivia is fighting hard to get better. I pray that it happens soon and you can bring her home!
Beth
April 21, 2010 7:48 am
Ralph,
Hang in there and only keep positive thoughts. She will pull thru this. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in this difficult time.
44theride
April 21, 2010 7:49 am
Our heart and prayers go out to you Ralph and your family. We will keep thinking positive thoughts and sending you our love. You have given our family many laughs and smiles, we are wishing them back to you. Take care!
Lisa Marie
April 21, 2010 8:02 am
God Bless you, your wife and little Olivia as well as her brother, Lincoln. I can’t imagine what you are going through, but know that our prayers and light are going to you constantly—- xoxox
Josh Cohen
April 21, 2010 8:08 am
Wishing your little angel a speedy recovery.
Everett
April 21, 2010 8:22 am
My condolences to the Ralph, Kari, and the rest of the Garman family on the loss of their son and my best wishes and prayers for their daughter. I know Olivia is being very well taken care of by the doctors at Cedars-Sinai as well as being surrounded by family and friends that love her. I can’t wait for the update on her recovery and eventually on her trip home.
shelly
April 21, 2010 8:39 am
Keeping your family in my thoughts!
Sarahface
April 21, 2010 8:58 am
All my best to you and your family Ralph. We miss you man. Keep fighting bb Olivia!
Robyn
April 21, 2010 9:01 am
Ralph, we wish you and your family all the best! We will continue to pray for your beautiful babygirl! <3
Barbara
April 21, 2010 9:05 am
Your KROQ family is with you and your family during Olivia’s fight to grow and become strong enough to go home with her loving parents. Hang in there Ralph and Kari, we love and support you always !!!
Ashleypoe
April 21, 2010 9:13 am
What an awesome guy. He’s going through all this and still had the time and energy to give us an update. I wish nothing but the best for you Garman family. You are in my thoughts and I will continue to send strength, love and healing your way…
carrie away
April 21, 2010 9:14 am
Stay strong! Our thoughts & prayer go out to your family!
Dom
April 21, 2010 9:14 am
So sad to hear such a bad thing happening to such an awesome person, keep your head up Ralph if your little girl is anything like you she won’t be giving up any time soon. Lots of love and respect,
Dom.
Mike
April 21, 2010 9:16 am
My thoughts are with you buddy. I’m the parent of 2 NICU graduates. The first spent his first 7 weeks of life in the NICU. I know what you are going through with that. You get great news one day, only to get bad news the next day. Having to deal with those alarms, visiting hours, moody nurses, etc. They are trying times. Most of the nurses are fantastic, but occasionally there is that one that is just a devil woman.
Christine
April 21, 2010 9:16 am
Dear Garman family, I feel so bad for you are going thru. My eyes swelled up with tears after reading the above. God speed recovery to your sweet daughter.
Christine
jen
April 21, 2010 9:45 am
Being a mother I can only imagine the pain you and your wife are going through. Be strong and know that NICU is the best place place for your little girl. With your love and the faith and love of your friends, family and extended family of listeners you will all pull through and your daughter will be home soon.
The Quinn's
April 21, 2010 9:58 am
Want to send are love and support your way. We look forward to hearing the day that Olivia gets to go home with her amazing parents. Stay strong and know that you are in our prayers!!!
Mai
April 21, 2010 10:03 am
Sending good thoughts your way. I hope you and your wife get some good news soon.
C
April 21, 2010 10:13 am
Best Wishes to Ralph and his family.. I am praying for you everyday. Hopefully you will be home soon with your beautiful daughter..
downtowntrash
April 21, 2010 10:16 am
<3
Jenny
April 21, 2010 10:25 am
I believe all of our prayers will help to bring continued strength to Olivia and hold her up to heal with God’s grace and speed. May you continue to feel our love and support for your family. You are a great daddy Ralph. Come back when Olivia is better and you’re ready. She will be home with you and your wife soon. We will be here waiting for you.
Mercedes
April 21, 2010 10:26 am
Thanks for the update Ralph. Again my best to you and your family. We’re all praying for Olivia! She’s a fighter so keep fighting along with her! We miss you, but your family comes first, so take as long as you need and know that we’re all praying for you, your wife, Olivia and little Lincoln who I’m sure is in heaven watching over all of you.
Stay Strong!
Mike
April 21, 2010 10:27 am
I can’t imagine what kind of strength is needed for what you and your family are going through. I hope somehow that my thoughts and prayers have some form of positive effect as your family is in them every day.
Jennifer
April 21, 2010 10:31 am
Baby Olivia… praying you get stronger everyday!
Denise
April 21, 2010 10:40 am
Oh Ralph! I don’t know where I have been as I was unaware you were expecting, let alone twins. I’m SO terribly sorry for the loss of little Lincoln. Olivia will make it! Stay strong and know that you and your wife are in our hearts. We will continue to send you +++ vibes. Our thoughts are with you and the family. xoxo
Carrie
April 21, 2010 10:49 am
Dear Garmin family,
I hope you are able to draw strength from one another as you try to get from one day to the next. I’m so sorry for what you’re all going through. I hope your sweet girl continues her brave fight with more steps forward and less steps back until you’re able to able to carry her home for the first time.
The not knowing and the worry must be such a struggle, but for whatever it’s worth: know that there are lots and lots of people rooting for Olivia and all of those who’ve become a part of her journey so far.
Sending positive thoughts your way…
Carrie
tom
April 21, 2010 11:18 am
Wish I could send a hug to your family…instead, I made a donation via the link. Take care and get lots of rest.
diego
April 21, 2010 11:44 am
my best wishes to little olivia
George Torres
April 21, 2010 12:11 pm
Ralph, our thoughts and prayers are with your family. You’re heart and strength throughout this ordeal is a testament is courageous spirit.
insomniac29
April 21, 2010 12:24 pm
Ralph .. Olivia is fighter just like you , she will be fine.
Michelle
April 21, 2010 12:32 pm
Such sad news…Hang in there, our thoughts are with you and your family. We miss you!
Amanda
April 21, 2010 12:38 pm
Wishing, praying and hoping for the best Garmen family. Seems like Olivia comes from a family of fighters, she will be home in the blink of an eye.
sophia
April 21, 2010 1:11 pm
My sincere condolences to you and your wife on the loss of your son. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
<3 sophia
Chrissy
April 21, 2010 1:20 pm
O most beloved Saint Gerard, who, like the Savior, loved children and by your prayers freed many from disease and even death, listen to us who are pleading for our sick child. We thank God for the great gift of our son/daughter and ask God to restore our child to health if such be the holy will. This favor we beg of you through your love for all children and mothers.
Amen
Sandra
April 21, 2010 1:55 pm
Sending you nothing but good thoughts and vibes…
Carrie
April 21, 2010 1:58 pm
Thoughts and prayers to you and your family as you continue to deal with your daily struggles. Hope to hear you back on the radio soon. We miss you!!!
ToAsTy
April 21, 2010 3:06 pm
The only other “Olivia” I know of is on Fringe, and she kicks ass, so don’t worry about it, Ralph, lil Olive will be solving crimes of a supernatural nature in no time. With any luck, she’ll grow up and have crazy powers. That’s why she was a pre-me, she needed to be out in this world as soon as possible, theres lots of stuff that needs to be done. Come back soon dude, best wishes.
Nichole
April 21, 2010 3:17 pm
My deepest thoughts and prayers go out to Ralph and the Garman family – I was getting worried and didn’t know why I didn’t hear one of my favorite members of the K&B family on the radio. Keep fighting Olivia!
Magic
April 21, 2010 3:52 pm
Ralph keep yer head up, Olivia will pull thru!
Isabel
April 21, 2010 4:00 pm
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, Ralph! Baby Olivia has proven to be a strong little girl and I am so sorry to hear that she is still struggling. Thank you for sharing this most trying time with your listeners. I sincerely hope you and your family can find some sense of comfort knowing that we are all praying for Olivia’s recovery! May peace fill your hearts and your home!
RJ
April 21, 2010 4:40 pm
Dear Ralph and Kari, as the Mom of a preemie, I know the anguish you are going through. You can see from all the comments that you are not alone, though it will feel like that in the still of the night. I won’t say it gets easier, because it does not. But you will come out on the other side. Forever changed, but you will get though it. Because when Olivia comes home, you won’t have a choice. You will have to be there for her. And you will be, I have no doubts. Love to you three. RJ
Dahlia
April 21, 2010 4:54 pm
You have a little fighter. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family and especially Olivia. Hang in there and keep up your strength.
Rigo
April 21, 2010 4:57 pm
hope everything goes well my best wishes
Carla
April 21, 2010 5:22 pm
The human body is pretty amazing and so is the human spirit. I know she will be just fine! Each day she will get stronger and stronger – and I will pray for this. I sure miss hearing you in the morning.
stephanie
April 21, 2010 6:08 pm
Ralph, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers as you go through this tough time. Hang in there!
We love you!1
Cynthia
April 21, 2010 7:35 pm
I echo the thoughts and prayers of everyone else. I have never had children, I just know of people/friends/family who have gone through premature babies and the loss of children (in my closest friend’s case, her youngest, 14, in a sudden accident in their barn). God bless you all.
Cynthia
Donnie
April 21, 2010 8:01 pm
To the Garman Family,
What you’ve been going through is the toughest time of your life. Just know that you have all the love and support in the world that anyone could ask for. I have a daughter of my own and she is my world, believe me the sun will rise after this storm. So many good times are on there way. Hang in there!
marce
April 21, 2010 8:16 pm
she’s a fighter just like her daddy! Know that your, your wife and Mz Olivia are not alone in this! We are all with you! Hugs and kisses to Mz Olivia!
DJ
April 21, 2010 8:31 pm
Ralph and family, The extremes of emotions your hearts must be enduring will forever strengthen you.
May healing come soon along with many more years of love and joy.
It is so strange to feel I know you so well, you have shared so much of yourself with me and yet we’ve never met. Thank you for hanging out with me every morning and never failing to make my day better.
I know your days will be better soon. Much love and prayers.
Anna
April 21, 2010 9:05 pm
All my love to little Olivia and the Garman family.
oscar ulloa
April 21, 2010 9:06 pm
Our best wishes for your family . . .
Karla
April 21, 2010 9:36 pm
My thoughts and prayers to Ralph and his wife. Just pray and never lose faith.
Mike
April 21, 2010 9:39 pm
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Ralph. We are all part of this little family and I wish I could do more than post a comment on a message board or send what little I can to Cedars for a donation. We are all standing by you , your wife and Olivias side! Much love to you all !
minigiant07
April 21, 2010 11:41 pm
I know how hard it is for Ralph as I too have been in his shoes with my son who was born at seven months. But with friends, family, and faith good things happen. Olivia will get better as the days go by and she will be home with her family very soon. Our prayers go out to the Garman family.
Lori
April 22, 2010 9:14 am
Positive thoughts & prayers going out to lil’ Olivia!
Teresa
April 22, 2010 10:13 am
Ralph, God bless you and your family. Your daughter sounds like a fighter – I pray that God will bring her home soon.
Julia
April 22, 2010 12:11 pm
Praying for strength for Olivia, you and your family.
Odily
April 22, 2010 5:35 pm
Ralph,I am wishing nothing but the best for you, your wife and little baby Olivia, I think of you everyday when i listen to your show! Be strong Ralph! I am Praying for your baby for full recovery, we all miss you, I hope you can come back soon.
rich c
April 22, 2010 5:40 pm
Strength comes from within…and remember that Olivia came from the Two of you…She has double the amount…Stay strong Ralph..Stay positive…
Ryan
April 22, 2010 6:29 pm
Stay strong, Ralph.
tambourinequeen
April 22, 2010 7:12 pm
stay strong, we all love you here and wish you only the best.
Robin
April 22, 2010 8:16 pm
I pray that God grants your entire family strength during this difficult time and that you will soon know the joy of bringing your beautiful daughter home.
Toni
April 22, 2010 8:24 pm
Ralph, your family is in good hands at Cedars. They have the best of the best. You touch so many lives every day, more than you know. All of your fans really miss you! Be with your family as long as you need. We want the best for you all!
Godspeed to Olivia in her recovery!!!!
unitedstyle
April 22, 2010 11:20 pm
Hang in there Olivia. Our son Alex was born 2 1/2 months prematurely, weighing less than 2 pounds. But he was a fighter. He stayed in the NICU for 8 weeks. Next month he’ll turn 8.
Nic
April 23, 2010 6:34 am
Ralph, it’s great to hear you back on the air today. Stay strong. We have no way of knowing why these things happen to us but all we can do is become stronger because of them. Let this loss strengthen the bond between you and your family and friends. We are all praying for you and your little girl.
estudioG
April 23, 2010 7:25 am
The angels are watching over your little angel, and my prayers are with you and your family.
Mike S
April 23, 2010 7:32 am
Glad you’re back and to hear your voice.
God Bless you and your family.
Brooke
April 23, 2010 7:40 am
Ralph, you are so so missed, but I wish you and your family strength and serenity during this difficult time. Please know that you (and your entire family!) are loved by all of us and have us behind you!
Michelle
April 23, 2010 7:47 am
Hi Ralph,
It was great to hear you in good spirits on the Showbiz Beat this morning. I would like to offer my condolences to you, your lovely wife and family during this difficult time and wish little Olivia a full and speedy recovery.
My best wishes to you and your family,
Michelle
kpalmal
April 23, 2010 8:31 am
Ralph – I was so pleased to hear your voice at 7:00 a.m. when I turned on KROQ for my 1 hour morning commute today. Your show biz beat made me laugh, and I was amazed by the resiliency of the human spirit! At 7:30 a.m., Kevin & Bean, showing their oft-hidden caring side, encouraged you to share your experiences and pain which resulted in my crying right along with you (making driving a tad difficult). You are right though – you (and the show generally) do provide many of us much-needed release from our daily pressures and we DO begin to feel like family (although never having met). As an example, on 9-11, I tried listening to network news reports but quickly switched to you and Doc who masterfully handled then, as you did today, a very difficult and personal situation. Thank you to all of you and my thoughts are with you and your family.
amber
April 23, 2010 8:29 am
ralphie poo
i can’t tell you how great it is to hear your voice this a.m. i pray for you and kari and olivia EVERY day! my heart goes out to you, i send love to you and the fam! xxxx’s
Molly
April 23, 2010 8:57 am
Ralph – great to have you back on the air! Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Keep fighting Olivia – we’re all rooting for you!
Yolanda
April 23, 2010 9:55 am
Ralph,
We were so happy to hear your voice again today. I know that everyday is a struggle for you and your family, but keep Christ close to your heart and believe in the power of prayer. God has answered so many prayers and is all powerful. Just wanted to let you know too that my 17 year old son, who at that age think they are so incredibly cool, cried when he heard of your loss. You and your family remain in our prayers and Lincoln’s name will be added to our parish prayer list. Stay strong and again it is so good to hear you again!! ICU nurses rock!
Rosa Avalos
April 23, 2010 10:00 am
My prayers and condolences go to you, your wife and family…. I been a listener for over 12 years… and I cant imagine the pain.. But my heart goes to Olivia my fam and I are praying for her everyday………..
Luis
April 23, 2010 10:32 am
I am very glad to hear you are back on air. I am very sorry to hear about your little angel. She will be watching over you and your family. Stay strong! We all love you!
Barbara
April 23, 2010 10:57 am
My heart and prayers are with you and your wife. I am so very sorry to hear of the loss of your son Lincoln. My prayers are with you and family and with Olivia.
Sandy
April 23, 2010 11:11 am
Hi Ralph!! Just want to send you and your wife my deepest condolences for the loss of your son. I truly am very sorry for his passing. I also went to send many well wishes to little Olivia. You will get through this.
Carla
April 23, 2010 1:00 pm
When I heard you on the radio this morning it instantly brought a smile to my face. Not just because I knew you’d make me laugh, but because I also knew it meant Olivia was getting better. I know she will continue to get stronger and stronger everyday. Now I admire not only your humor and intelligence, but your humility. You brought a tear to my eye. All the best to you and your beautiful family. And “DAMN YOU, SHARKTOPUS!!!!!”
kimberlie
April 23, 2010 1:09 pm
I have only just heard this news today and can’t fathom the pain of such a tragedy, but admire you Ralph for coming back on air and sharing your story. I send all my best wishes and hopes of strength to you, your wife and Olivia. RIP Lincoln.
Patty
April 23, 2010 5:04 pm
My thoughts and prayers are with you, your wife and Olivia.
May god bless your beautiful family, and may your precious Angel bring you blessings from heaven. I know the pain of loosing a son.I lost my son due to premature birth, It’s been 2 years since my loss. There are days that I’m doing good and there are days I break down.I will honor your son tomorrow at the march of dimes.
LOLO
April 23, 2010 8:00 pm
Dear Olivia,
We love you, get well soon.
Vanessa
April 23, 2010 8:51 pm
Ralph your are one of my favorite people that I love listening to everymorning on Kroq. I just wanted to say My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Especially for olivia that she will be strong and pull thru this. Thank you for all the laughs, its true what you said when I have had a bad day you and the K & B team have always been there to brighten it. God bless!
Vanessa
April 23, 2010 9:04 pm
Ralph you are one of my favorite people to listen to every morning. I just wanted to say that my prayers and thougts are with you and your family. Especially for olivia that she will stay strong and pull thru this. It’s true what you said on this mornings show, whenever I have felt down you and the K & B crew have always been there to start my moring right. Thank you for that. God bless you and your family always
JoAnn
April 24, 2010 6:32 pm
So sorry to hear about the loss of your son Lincoln. So very glad to hear that little Olivia is improving. I wish the very best for all of you. Hang in there. I’m sure that it is just a roller coaster of emotions everyday.
Gerald
April 26, 2010 8:45 pm
Hi Ralph, the biggest fear in my life is school (because im not very good academically) and i have to go 5 miserable days a week and every morning from when i wake up to when i go to school i listen to k&b. It is a safe zone very close to my heart because when i listen to you guys you make me laugh and i forget about my struggles and worries ahead of me that day. I want to thank you for creating that safe zone for me and i want you to know that ill be praying for you your family lincoln and olivia…God bless-Gerald
Meredith D.
April 28, 2010 8:30 am
To Ralph and his family. I wish for lots of strength for you, your wife and your little girl. She has her brother watching over her. I lost my twin girls when they were born at 24 weeks, there’s nothing worse in life. But, I do have a friend who had both her children at 30 weeks and they are healthy, happy kids today. My niece was also born at 35 weeks and after two weeks in the NICU is home and such a chunky baby now! Hoping all three of you are home and doing well, so soon!
Karen
May 28, 2010 1:44 pm
You and your family have been in my prayers. I wish you love and health and healing. Go Olivia!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Cinful
June 1, 2010 7:49 am
Oh Ralph, I had no idea! Been a faithful KROQ fan for years (20+) but haven’t been in the car listening in the morning. My heart goes out to your and your family!
Karen M
June 2, 2010 10:09 am
I am so sorry for your loss and struggle. Please be assured that Lincoln will help Olivia pull through no matter how long it takes. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Hang in there and make sure you take care of yourself along with darling Olivia.
Brenee
June 5, 2010 2:10 pm
Let’s hear it for the O.G.!!!!
Congrats Garman Family! She’s lovely.
Your East Coast fans have been with you through all of this. . . And we’re so glad your little one is home with you and your lovely wife.
XO – Baltimore, Maryland.
David M. Perez
September 22, 2010 9:33 am
Ralph here’s wishing you a Happy Birthday. May this year bring more joy and happiness to you and your young family. You are the real reason i listen to the morning show and I wish you success and happiness in your future. Happy Birthday!