A Sad Day For The Kevin And Bean Family
The news we got this weekend from Ralph Garman, our friend and colleague of 11 years in the morning on the Kevin & Bean Show, left us in shock. It didn’t seem possible that his infant son who we had heard so much about was gone.
We were all so happy when we got the news of Lincoln‘s and his sister Olivia‘s birth on March 26th. When we went on the air with the news a few days later you let Ralph and Kari know how excited you were for them too with an outpouring of congratulations.
Because of the bond with our listeners that has developed over the years of being on KROQ we heard from many of you who were devastated by the news we announced this morning and said it felt like this had happened to one of their closest friends.
Ralph asked us to share a personal note with you. Please click MORE to go on.
“To all the K & B listeners:
My wife and I want to thank you so much for the avalanche of e-mails we got when I made the announcement about our twins last week. Your messages were filled with so much love and support, and were so appreciated.
Sadly, our little son, Lincoln, was stricken with a horrible, sudden illness on Saturday, and passed away Sunday morning.
I’ve asked K & B to pass this news on to you because so many of you were so generous with your concern and kindness regarding our new family. We’ll try to honor Lincoln by giving his little sister, Olivia, all the love we can.
I’ll be back as soon as I am able.
All my thanks to you all,
Ralph”
All of us who love Ralph and Kari feel so helpless right now to be able to say or do anything to comfort them in their hour of unimaginable sadness. It will take time and tremendous strength for them to weather this storm but please know how much they appreciate your thoughts and prayers.
If you would like to send a condolence email, please click here (ralph@kroq.com).
Several listeners have asked for a physical address to mail cards to and KROQ is at 5901 Venice Blvd., Los Angeles, Ca., 90034.
Finally, Ralph has shared with us on and off the air how much he deeply admires the doctors, nurses and staff at Cedars-Sinai Hospital in Los Angeles. They have worked round-the-clock to give both babies, born nearly 2 months prematurely, the best possible care 24/7 since their delivery ten days ago.
The hospital has a Grateful Patient program where donations can be earmarked in the name of a loved one, to be used to “make advances in biomedical research, educate tomorrow’s physicians, and continue serving the community for years to come.”
If you would like to make a contribution of any amount, please do so in the name of Lincoln James Garman by clicking here.
Thank you.
meemee
April 5, 2010 4:35 pm
My most sincerest condolences to Ralph and his wife Kari. I’m so sorry.
concertconfessions
April 5, 2010 4:43 pm
Much love to Ralph and his family.
clara Banda
April 5, 2010 4:51 pm
You start to feel after so many years that I actually know you guys personally. Just like with your broadcast on 9/11, I felt comforted by a friend. Now this feels like a loss in my family.Take care
Shelly
April 6, 2010 5:34 pm
so very true. My heart hurts for you.
Roxanne
April 5, 2010 4:57 pm
There are no words that can explain or any statements that can ease the sense of loss you are not alone, we love you and your pain breaks our hearts.
chrisdubz
April 5, 2010 5:00 pm
I am really sad to hear this! My prayers are you and your family Ralph!
cheryl
April 5, 2010 5:01 pm
There is no greater love than the love of a child, there is no greater loss then the loss of a child.Thought & prayers to Ralrh & his entire family. Thanks for all the laughter you have given your fans over the years, may their thoughts & prayers bring some light & laughter to your heart when it is ready. Extra prayers for Olivia!!xoxooxox
chrisdubz
April 5, 2010 5:03 pm
What’s the email address? Every time I click the “click here” hyperlink nothing pops up for me.
Lightning | Writer, Video, On-Air
April 5, 2010 5:11 pm
ralph@kroq.com
EG
April 5, 2010 5:06 pm
I know there are so many people praying for you and your other daughter Olivia. Although Lincoln has passed, Olivia will break out there in a few months and give both Mr. & Mrs. Garman many more positive memories to hopefully outweigh the painful ones.
Drie
April 5, 2010 5:14 pm
I teared up this morning when Kevin and Bean shared the news of Lincoln’s passing. My thoughts and prayers to Ralph, Kari, and Olivia.
Cindy S.
April 5, 2010 5:15 pm
I am so sorry and wish there was something I could say that would help ease the pain. My thoughts and prayers go out to Ralph and Kari and little Olivia and their family and all who love them.
Bill P.
April 5, 2010 5:21 pm
Hey Ralph, No words to describe how sorry I am for your loss. I wish you a soon recovery. I know how difficult this is, but keep going and take care.
typhoidterri
April 5, 2010 5:22 pm
My condolences to Ralph and Kari. Olivia has a fantastic dad.
Brett
April 5, 2010 5:26 pm
My familys thoughts and prayers are with all of you. My wife has an Aunt who is a retired Mother General, same level as the Pope in the nunhood. I’ll have her pray for Lincoln and all of you. God Bless.
monique
April 5, 2010 5:36 pm
My heart stopped when I heard the news on the K&B show this morning. My deepest condolences to Ralph and his wife. I can’t even begin to imagine what they are going through. I don’t know what else to say but best wishes to the family and baby Olivia. My thoughts and prayers are with you all!
jared risman
April 5, 2010 5:43 pm
MY thoughts and Prayers go out to Ralph and Kari and little olivia. I will take time out of every morning from this day forth and say a prayer for little link.
adam z
April 5, 2010 6:12 pm
Ralph you and your family are in my prayers! Im so sorry to hear about your loss…. Ralph i listen to you every morning at work and i feel that your like family… please take care…
Carlos
April 5, 2010 6:23 pm
Much love to the Garman family.
Daniel Pickett
April 5, 2010 6:28 pm
Such terrible news and I can only imagine the heartbreak.
Like they say on Ralph’s old stomping grounds “NYPD Blue”- “I’ll keep a good thought for you.”
My deepest sympathies to the Garman family.
Shmegeggi
April 5, 2010 6:29 pm
I feel so bad for you and your wife. You don’t know me, but I love you man. It will all be ok, eventually. This too shall pass.
William
Rachel-Elizabeth
April 5, 2010 6:33 pm
Mr. and Mrs. Garman,
I am so incredibly apologetic for the loss of precious Lincoln James. I have been a faithful listener to the show for almost ten years now and I feel so much compassion for you and your family. The loss of a child is never easy and will take a great deal of time to heal from. I hope your pain works itself out.
Rachel-Elizabeth Mills
Lisa L
April 5, 2010 6:34 pm
My deepest and most sincere condolences to Ralph and his family. I felt like I was kicked in the chest this morning when I heard the news. My thoughts and prayers are with Kari, Ralph and Olivia.
diana
April 5, 2010 6:46 pm
my prayers go out to ralph and his family and i hope his daughter gets to live a healthy life
Trini
April 5, 2010 7:06 pm
I am so Sorry for your loss, You have my deepest condolences.
My prayers are with you and your family
Cesar
April 5, 2010 7:15 pm
Nobody deserves what you are going through. My prayers are with you and your family Ralph.
Wendy
April 5, 2010 7:15 pm
My god! I’m always a day behind because i listen to the podcast and i was so happy today hearing about their birth. And the story of how Lincoln’s name was chosen was so sweet. Now this… I am deeply sorry for your loss Ralph and my heart aches for you, your wife, and Olivia. My sincerest condolences.
ronotremata
April 5, 2010 7:28 pm
Ralph,
My deepest condolences to you and your wife and Olivia!
brian
April 5, 2010 7:28 pm
i hope you find the strength to make it through this tough time. i know olivia will be loved intensely
Kevin
April 5, 2010 7:49 pm
Clara is right,after a while you do feel somewhat connected to everyone on K&B.
“Beyond the door
There’s peace I’m sure.”
Noxx
April 5, 2010 7:51 pm
All our love brother. Nothing can temper a loss like this, just know that our prayers are with your family.
Lisa
April 5, 2010 7:52 pm
I was so thrilled when I heard of the birth of your twins and am equally devastated for your loss.
My prayers and positive thoughts are with you and your family, and especially little Olivia, during this most difficult time.
EG
April 5, 2010 7:56 pm
Ralph, I know the pain you are feeling now I also lost a baby & all I can tell you. Your daugher is going to make you strong she is going to bring you JOY. Give yourself time & your wife.
Ramon
April 5, 2010 7:59 pm
Ralph, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your wife right now. I’m truly sorry for your loss. Be strong during this time. Lincoln will never be forgotten. I know you two will be incredible parents to Olivia. Take as much time as you need. We’ll be waiting for you to come back. We love you man.
rusty
April 5, 2010 7:59 pm
as a new dad myself i cant begin to imagine the amount of pain you and your family are going through. my and my families prayers go to you in your time of sorrow
Zoe
April 5, 2010 8:11 pm
My sincerest condolences go out to Ralph and his wife Kari. I can’t imagine the heartache they are both going through but many people are here for both of them to get through this very hard time. I’m so sorry for your loss.
mark
April 5, 2010 8:32 pm
sad to hear of this! wish you well!
Jamie &Gary Ocamb
April 5, 2010 8:36 pm
Dear Ralph and Kari,
We have listened to K&B since they began and to you since you got there. I know no words are enough or right to help lessen your grieving-but know we all are thinking of you, Kari and Lincoln and hope as time goes on your sorrow will lessen. In time we hope the joy of having Olivia will help to heal your broken hearts.
All of love and deep condolences
Gary and Jamie Ocamb
vR
April 5, 2010 8:38 pm
Animo my friend Lincoln will be watching over you from heaven, and am sure he’ll be chanting…E-A-G-L-E-S….Eagles….u have to be strong Ralph…..
alycia
April 5, 2010 9:04 pm
I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers.
sam
April 5, 2010 9:19 pm
Hey Ralph I’m so sorry to here about your loss. I know the instant love one has for their child the minute you lay your eyes on them. I could not imagine the pain you and your wife are suffering right now. My family and I would like to send you our condolences.
Sincerely, Sam aka the Santa Monica Guy and my wife Gloria.
Jordan Barry
April 5, 2010 9:20 pm
Ralph,
I am so truely sorry for your loss. I believe that the hardest thing a parent could ever go through is the loss of a child; it’s unnatural and heartbreaking. No words I could ever say will take away your pain, but know that me and my fellow listeners do support and mourn with you in this difficult time. Just know that eventually the sun will shine just alittle bit brighter and it will be easier to smile again. Best wishes to you, your wife, and your beautiful baby girl and God bless your son.
Sincerely,
Jordan
Joe
April 5, 2010 9:43 pm
As a father I can not ever imagine the kind of loss when loosing a child. I wish you and your family the strength in this sad and painful time and hope you honor the moments shared with your new born you lost by giving him a place permanently in your heart. I wish you the best, all the love man.
Adrie
April 5, 2010 9:49 pm
Both my brother and I would like to send our condolences to Ralph and Kari. Though there aren’t enough words or actions to make the pain go away, support from everyone will always be there for our KROQ family! Much love, much respect, much support from all. We love you guys.
Margaret
April 5, 2010 9:56 pm
Please know that your entire family in Los Angeles is thinking of you and sending you lots of love to you and your family during this difficult time.
Christine
April 5, 2010 10:06 pm
Ralph, Kari and Olivia – We are so very sorry to hear of the loss of your son and brother, Lincoln. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
clatienza
April 5, 2010 10:16 pm
I’m so sorry to hear about Lincoln. My condolences go out to Ralph and his family. I will be praying for you. Be strong and have faith. Everything will be ok.
Nikki Greaves
April 5, 2010 10:20 pm
There is nothing to compare with the loss of a child, Though words may be meaningless right now, may you find some comfort in the love and concern that surround you
from so many who deeply care. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your wife Kari. In the short your baby was with you Im sure he felt all the love you and your wife gave him.
Alex Casas
April 5, 2010 10:28 pm
Ralph, There are no words that I can tell you anf Keri that will make you feel better. Only time will make this horibble trajedy easier. I send mu condolences to you and your new family. Thanks for all the years of laughter. May God bless Olivia.
Martin
April 5, 2010 10:29 pm
Dear Ralph.
My heart goes out to you and your family.I wish I had the words to help comfort you and your wife in this sad time. I will pray for your daughter,and keep Lincoln in my heart. I’ve listened to you every morning for the several years. Please take all the time you need. Even if Bean has to take over for you. Shhhh…he sucks.
TB
April 5, 2010 10:42 pm
My condolences for you and your family. I too lost my pre-mature daughter after being bed written for 2 months. The Lord gave me the opportunity to know her for two weeks when she left us. No words will ever make the pain go away, it’s been 6 years for me and I still miss her! Ralph, you give everyone peace and laughter every morning and that is a gift that Lincoln will take with him and be proud of. Olivia needs you to bless her with that positive attitude you share with us. My prayer go out to you and your family! The March of Dimes was a blessing for me when I needed to vent…
Johnathan A
April 5, 2010 10:47 pm
So much love and my sincerest condolences to you and your family Ralph. So many years you made me laugh every morning and I wish you the very best.
mary
April 5, 2010 11:08 pm
My thoughts and prayers go out to Ralph and his family. I have listened to you since high school and you have gotten my family through some very difficult times. Time will heal you, Kari and Olivia. May god bless you and keep you in his heart for you are in ours. My most sincerest condolences and it will get better…. it takes time and love but it does get better.
Pete
April 5, 2010 11:30 pm
Sir, nothing I could say could BEGIN to solve the wrong that has been done. You’ve become family over the years, though we’ve never met, your grief is felt and shared by many. Deepest condolences.
mike
April 5, 2010 11:53 pm
The worst possible feeling flushed through my body the moment I heard this horrible news. I am so truly sorry for the loss.
wanda
April 6, 2010 12:03 am
Like the rest of the Kevin and Bean Family, I too was saddened to hear of Lincoln’s passing this morning. Please know how much you mean to all of us Ralph and as a family our arms are outstretched to offer comfort to you and yours♥
Dale
April 6, 2010 2:10 am
After listening to this show for more than 6 years now, I’ve always felt like my work day is not complete without listening to Kevin, Bean, Ralph, Pyscho Mike & Lisa Mae. Our prayers goes out to the Garman family. God Bless Lincoln and may he rest in peace.
B Cuz Im Awesome
April 6, 2010 2:33 am
Oh My God!! I am so sorry Ralph I’ll give you my condolences and send you my prayers that you get through these hard times, and for little Lincoln. May he R.I.P. and go on to a better place.
glowthme
April 6, 2010 5:36 am
I am so sorry for your loss, I am so lost for worlds. My heart goes out to you and your wife.
anthny
April 6, 2010 6:21 am
i can not begin to imagine the utter sadness ralp and kari are enduring. it’s not but the most saddest moment to hear the news. it’s very tragic. just like how i lost my father in an accident while deployed overseas and i never got the chance to go to his funeral. it’s nothing but sickening emotional pain in the pit of your stomach. i may not exactly share the same experience of loss, however, i feel that i may share some wisdom to what’s getting me by. all i can say is that you must find a way to continue, one day at a time. if not for you, for you loved ones. always remember that you and your family are loved dearly and our prayers are with you.
Oscar and Ivett
April 6, 2010 6:27 am
Our sincerest condolences to Ralph and to Kari.
Carrie M
April 6, 2010 6:29 am
This is such heartbreaking news. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Garman and KROQ family.
Allan Alvaro
April 6, 2010 6:32 am
I can’t imagine what pain you and Kari are going through but try real hard to lean on one another. I am so sorry for your loss but you must realize little Lincoln is with God now feeling no pain or suffering. It sucks we didn’t get to enjoy him but spiritually he gets a free pass. My prayers are with you.
LO
April 6, 2010 6:35 am
Deepest sympathies to Ralph & his family. Also to you all – I know you are like family to him as well.
Maria
April 6, 2010 6:40 am
My sympathies to Ralph, his wife, and family.
Elysia
April 6, 2010 6:42 am
My thoughts and prayers are with the Garman fmaily, This is truly, truly a horrible tragedy!
NickyMacG
April 6, 2010 6:44 am
It’s hard to hear such news like this about Ralph, who entertains the world of KROQ listeners every morning and who proves to be a genuinely good person time and time again. The faithful listeners have your back. Our thoughts and prayers are with Ralph, Kari and Olivia.
Heather
April 6, 2010 6:48 am
Ralph and his family are in my thoughts. I’m so sorry for your loss.
Rob
April 6, 2010 7:07 am
I’m so sorry Ralph, my condolences go out to you and your family.
spookywriter
April 6, 2010 7:22 am
I have been through the same thing. It seems as though nothing can ever stop the hurt. Nothing ever will but, eventually, the worst gets replaced by those few moments you spent with him.
He will always be there and memories of him will help the empty, soul searing loss you are going through right now.
Sean Tait
April 6, 2010 7:39 am
So sorry about your loss! Hang in there through these tough times.
Andrea
April 6, 2010 7:39 am
Ralph & Kari – No words will ease the pain of your loss but hopefully knowing you aren’t alone and that everyone is here supporting, thinking and praying for you will give you some sort of comfort. You are in my thoughts and prayers! xoxo
Daniel M
April 6, 2010 7:51 am
Losing a child is probably one of the hardest thing that could ever happen to anybody. I personally have not experience it, but my brother has. I’ve seen how hard it is. Our prayers will go to Ralph and his family.
sin
April 6, 2010 7:57 am
As a person who just lost a dear grandma my deepest condolences to your family. As mention in previous comments hearing your voice during the 9/11 broadcast gave me some sense of comfort and family. Young or old losing a love one is not easy but I hope that you’ll feel all the love that we send your way.
Fen
April 6, 2010 8:12 am
My sincerest condolences to you and your family. May that little angel always watch over your family!
Travis
April 6, 2010 8:12 am
I’m so sad to hear this. Your family is in my prayers. Keep your head up.
cindi
April 6, 2010 8:17 am
There are no words to express how sorry I am for your loss… My thoughts and hopes for peace, happiness and healing are with you and your family and for a healthy happy little Olivia…
tish
April 6, 2010 8:23 am
What heartbreaking news.
My thoughts and prayers go out to Ralph, Kari, and Olivia.
I think God has a special place in His arms for babies who have left us too soon, and I’m sure Lincoln is warm and safe in His embrace.
Christina
April 6, 2010 8:30 am
Ralph & Kari….
Hold on to the love that you have for each other, and know that you will get through this together. Ralph, you & Kari & baby Olivia are in my thoughts.
Natalie
April 6, 2010 8:30 am
My deepest condolences to both you and your wife Kari. I have two boys of my own and I cannot even imagine the heartbreak. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Olivia will bring you so much joy and happiness, Lincoln will live on through his sister.
LMLEinCam
April 6, 2010 8:38 am
My condolences to the Garman family. I was so happy to hear the news last week & hearbroken to hear about this turn of events. You’re in our thoughts & prayers.
Lett
April 6, 2010 8:39 am
I am so sorry for your terrible loss. I know the pain you feel because it happened to me 3 years ago. Just know that you have an enormous support system thru family, friends and literally thousands of fans all over the world. We really care about you. You are in my prayers.
John
April 6, 2010 8:46 am
Be strong!
Kelli
April 6, 2010 8:52 am
Im so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart is breaking for you and your wife. My prayers are with you and your family.
Christine
April 6, 2010 8:59 am
This is really horrible news! No parent should have to go through that. The Garman family will be in my thoughts.
Jennifer
April 6, 2010 9:03 am
My thoughts and prayers are with Ralph and his family and everyone at KROQ who is dealing with this loss. I hope that everyone can make it through this we are all here for your Ralph.
Tamara
April 6, 2010 9:16 am
We love you, Ralph, and our hearts are breaking with yours. My deepest condolences to the entire KROQ family.
Crystal
April 6, 2010 9:17 am
I hold my little one extra close and have extra patience today in honor of your family and their loss. Words just cannot express. May you feel the love and comfort of those around you to carry you in this time of need.
Jessica
April 6, 2010 9:21 am
My condolences and prayers to Ralph and his family.
Suzi
April 6, 2010 9:24 am
Oh, Ralph…I’m so terribly sorry for your tragic loss! As often as it’s said, you really feel like a friend. My husband and I often refer to things you’ve said on the radio and when people hear us, they wonder, “who is this Ralph?”. My heart aches for your loss. You, Kari and little miss Olivia are in my thoughts and prayers. XO
Melanie
April 6, 2010 9:25 am
No words can express my sincerest condolences. May Lincoln live on in your hearts. My prayers will be for Olivia’s good health and happy life.
Alicia
April 6, 2010 9:28 am
Ralph and Kari, words cannot express how saddened I was to hear the news about your son Lincoln. My son was born 8 years ago on March 26th. It’s a great day and your little Olivia is sure to be just as wonderful, beautiful, smart and loving as my son Jackson is. The thoughts and prayers of my family go out to you and yours. Take care.
Lane
April 6, 2010 9:31 am
This was horrible news and my heart goes out to the whole family. I cannot imagine what they are going through. My thoughts and well-wishes are with them.
Jessica
April 6, 2010 9:44 am
My thoughts and prayers are with Ralph, Kari and Olivia.
Stacey
April 6, 2010 9:45 am
My condolences to Ralph and his family. My prayers are with you.
Misty
April 6, 2010 9:48 am
My heart is breaking for Ralph and Kari. There is nothing that can be said to make this easier for them. This is the most tragic loss once can have, and my heart, thoughts and prayers are with them. Lincoln is an angel now and will help Olivia, Ralph and Kari get through this the best they can.
chris s.
April 6, 2010 9:59 am
you and your family are in my prayers. we love you ralph!
lannymc
April 6, 2010 10:00 am
wow, may God lift you and hold you. There is a new angel in heaven.
Chris
April 6, 2010 10:40 am
My condolences. I am very sorry for your loss. Much love to the Garman family.
Daniel
April 6, 2010 10:23 am
My condolences to Ralph and his wife. I’m sorry for your loss. Your family will be in my prayers.
Cindy R
April 6, 2010 10:26 am
I feel really sorry for their loss
There are no words to take away the great amount of pain they must be feeling. Heart+Soul.
MAC
April 6, 2010 10:28 am
Ralph and Kari, I was saddend to hear of the loss of your son, I honestly cried and held my little girl tight. Your loss is a loss for all your fans and I am sure I am not alone in saying you and your family are in the thoughts and prayers of the all that have come to know you. Peace be with Lincoln trust he is in God’s hands and he will forever be safe.
Rob
April 6, 2010 10:46 am
My sincerest condolences to you and your family.
JAM
April 6, 2010 10:59 am
We are all there for you. God bless your family.
nightshayde
April 6, 2010 11:03 am
My heart goes out to Ralph, Kari, Olivia, everyone who knows them, and the whole KROQ family. Please know, Ralph, that there are thousands upon thousands of people out here sending you warmth and love and hope for the future.
Virginia
April 6, 2010 11:10 am
I can’t find the words to express my deepest condolences to Ralph, his wife and their entire family during this time. Much love to you all…
CJ
April 6, 2010 11:12 am
Thank you for posted this Bean. We are all feeling Ralph’s pain and sadness.
punisher jose
April 6, 2010 11:18 am
ohh snaps =(
Marco
April 6, 2010 11:20 am
Our love and prayers go out to you and your family dear Ralph, may God give you strenght in this difficult time and comfort your heart.
addy
April 6, 2010 11:21 am
Dear Ralph, I felt my heart break for you and your wife when I heard the tragic news. I offer my deepest condolences. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. I am truly sorry and I wish there was something that could be done or said to make this better.
Daisy
April 6, 2010 11:23 am
My family is so sad due to Ralph’s loss. He is the big brother every girl wants to have and I wish I knew what to say or do to ease his pain. I am very sorry for the loss Ralph and his family has endured. We miss you.
Cori
April 6, 2010 11:50 am
Sincere condolences to you and your family and friends. Much love to you.
Sylvia & Mike
April 6, 2010 12:22 pm
This is the saddest news ever. Much love to you and your family Ralph. May joy and laughter come back to you soon- you have brought so much to us over the years.
KReyes
April 6, 2010 1:11 pm
My heart goes out to Ralph and his wife Kari. No words can express what your feeling and going through. Im so, so sorry for your loss!
Jay
April 6, 2010 1:44 pm
Having two young ones myself, I can’t imagine the pain and shock the Garmans are going through. I wish them acceptance and understanding during this time and hope they can focus all their energy on little Olivia who will definitely put a smile on their faces. The emotional rollercoaster of happiness and sadness must be incredibly difficult for everyone involved and you all have my condolences.
Jay
jessica r.
April 6, 2010 2:31 pm
The highlight of my morning drive to work is Ralph and his showbiz beat…..it broke my heart to hear this tragic news. Ralph my condolences to you & your wife. Like many others have said, I feel like you’re a member of my family or a close friend. I am deeply saddened by this but in no comparison to what you’re going through. My prayers go out to you
Corey
April 6, 2010 2:46 pm
Thoughts and prayers go out to the Garmans. Nothing we can say will help ease the pain but know that the Kevin and Bean nation loves and supports you.
Tine
April 6, 2010 2:47 pm
Ralph & Kari – I am so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine the loss you both feel.
My love and thoughts go out to you both with all my heart.
Xoxo
Jenn
April 6, 2010 2:55 pm
Ralph and Kari, I am so sorry for the loss of your little precious angel. I am sure that he will watch over his sister and know that he will never be forgotten. I hope that during your times of sorrow you can see the light and smile of your little boys face. Your family is in my thoughts and I wish your family lots of strength in this tough time. Rest in peace little Lincoln, fly with the angels!
Liz
April 6, 2010 3:29 pm
Like everyone of your fans I too feel like the KROQ family is part of mine. Ralph and Kari, my deepest condolences go out to you. Be strong and I know you will get throught this rough time. Olivia is lucky to have you as parents.
Jessica
April 6, 2010 4:16 pm
So sorry to hear about the loss. My thoughts and prayers are with the Garman family and the KROQ family.
Tommy
April 6, 2010 4:39 pm
Hi Ralph, I have nothing but love and respect for you and your family.
Amy
April 6, 2010 5:32 pm
I just moved to NY over a year ago and haven’t been able to hear the show…. my sister just told me….. So horrible. I am so sad to hear the news for Ralph and his wife.
Pam
April 6, 2010 6:55 pm
Ralph, if you are reading these posts, this helped me a bit when my duaghter Ashley passed away.
Footprints
How very softly you tiptoed into my world.
Almost silently,
only a moment you stayed.
But what an imprint
your footsteps have left
upon my heart
There are no words or actions that will take your loss away, but know Lincoln had a purpose on this earth and in your loving family. I asked a nurse who was with me when my daughter passed away what purpose could there be for her suffering, that I just did not understand. She told me a story that in short said that she came to check on me, her brothers and her sister. She saw we were and would be okay. In seeing her strength and the fight she had it gave me strength while raising my other children Her purpose was great and wonderful and she did her job well. Your Lincoln also had a great and wonderful purpose and you honor him by loving him so dearly. Take this one minute at a time and move through it the best way you can. You will find strengh to get up in the morning for Olivia and from the love you have for both of those beautiful babies.
.
Erwin
April 14, 2010 3:05 pm
Wow, Pam, that comment was deeply moving! I am saddened at the thought of anyone or family experiencing a loss such as this and upset at no control over it. I have a pint sized mini-me and just the thought of his physical absence would leave me grieving til my time is at an end. I admire your ability to find strength to continue and hope Ralph & fam do as well! Love and spread forth
Jonnie boy
April 6, 2010 7:14 pm
I’m so sorry ralph. I’m at a loss for words. all I can say is you and your family are in my prayers
Rob
April 6, 2010 7:18 pm
Take care of that beautiful daughter and most of all, take care of yourselves during this difficult time. Our family sends our most sincere condolences to you and your wife and our thoughts will be with you during your time of bereavement. The K&B family all cares deeply about you.
zrock630
April 6, 2010 7:42 pm
Much love Ralph….
Justin
April 6, 2010 7:56 pm
Ralph,
I am so sorry to here of your loss. If I may speak for the K&B listeners, we all love your bits and have grown to know you over the years. When I heard the announcement this afternoon on my podcast ,I was shocked a saddened, My heart goes out to you and your family. Keep your head up my friend,we are all (K&B listeners) praying for you and your family.
Sincerely,
Justin Hall
Oscar
April 6, 2010 8:06 pm
Ralph you have always cheer me up with your showbiz beat and rants. Now I want to be there for you and your family. My deepest condolences.
Nicole
April 6, 2010 8:38 pm
Ralph and your family, your in my prayers. I hope everything turns out better, and know that you have an angel looking after your beautiful family. I am truly sorry for your loss
Laurel
April 6, 2010 10:14 pm
Ralph and Kari, Lincoln was so lucky to have you for his parents, even if it was only for a short while. He knew he was loved, and he knows you will take good care of his sister in his absence. Thoughts and prayers for the entire Garman family.
Ralph
April 6, 2010 10:40 pm
My deepest and most sincerest condolences to Ralph and his wife Kari. I’m so sorry for your loss. As a father I could never imagine losing a child no matter what age. I know that you will get through this. I feel like my best friends lost their child. My prayers are with the Garman Family.
Dan Rios - Garden Grove
April 6, 2010 11:14 pm
My condolences to the Garmen family. Ralph you are like a friend to me and my family as well. Our thoughts and prayers are with you my friend…
Kelly
April 6, 2010 11:24 pm
I have twin boys, one of whom we were very close to losing. Yet, I can’t imagine your pain. God bless you Ralph, Kari & your angel, Olivia.
deb
April 6, 2010 11:29 pm
My deepest condolences to Ralph, Kari, Olivia, the rest of their family, and to the KROQ folks who are also mourning this loss.
brent
April 6, 2010 11:33 pm
sorry ralph. wish i knew what to say
brent
Iza
April 6, 2010 11:50 pm
My prayers go out to you and your family. I’m so sorry.
Monica G.
April 7, 2010 1:42 am
My condolences to you and your family Ralph. My husband just told me a few days ago about the birth of your twins, I was so happy for you! (I did not know you were an expectant father.)
When I heard of Lincoln’s passing, I was totally shocked. I hope Olivia will pull through, strong and healthy. My thoughts and prayers are with you Ralph, Kari, and Baby Olivia.
Please Take Care.
q
April 7, 2010 3:03 am
I have never been one to express sentiments nor have I ever been affected or felt much pain when I’ve heard of the loss of someone that I didn’t personally know. This time it was different. The news literally brought a tear to my eye as I was driving to work. Ralph & Kari, my heart goes out to you both. Much love, respect & well wishes for both of you & Olivia.
Seth L
April 7, 2010 5:19 am
As you may have seen in one or two posts, I am about to be a father in a matter of hours and I am thinking about not only my son arriving, but my prayers for you and your family and I personally look to purchase an Eagles jersey out of respect for you and your family. I hope that doesn’t sound rude in any way. I wanted to pay respects in some small way. Bless you and your family.
Seth
Figaro195
April 7, 2010 8:38 am
I’m so sorry to hear about Ralph and Kari’s son. My sincerest condolences in your time of grief.
Kaitlin
April 7, 2010 8:51 am
Ralph, I am so sorry to hear about little Lincoln. I was so overjoyed to hear you announce their births on the air, but I am saddened by this devastating news. My heart goes out to you and your family.
TC
April 7, 2010 8:57 am
Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Stay strong for Olivia and know that Lincoln will always with you…..xoxoxo
skye
April 7, 2010 9:36 am
God’s Speed
Viol8tor
April 7, 2010 9:48 am
Dear Ralph and Family.
Deepest condolences and my prayers are with you and fam.
Know that your little angel will be with you forever in spirit.
James.
Lanee
April 7, 2010 9:51 am
Ralph, all my love and condolences to you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
DAWN
April 7, 2010 10:23 am
I am blown away with sadness for you and your family Ralph. My thoughts and prayers are with you always. xoxo
Lanee
April 7, 2010 10:41 am
My love to you and your family, Ralph. This is the worst thing that can ever happen to a parent and I truly empathize. We all love you so much. xoxox
michele
April 7, 2010 10:59 am
….I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. May God Bless you, your wife, and Olivia may he give you the strength to go on and Olivia everything in the world that is good. Again I am so sorry.
John
April 7, 2010 11:08 am
Not sure what else can be said, other than my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this tough time…be strong, and know that you have a lot of support all around you. I’m sorry for your loss…take care my friend!
Jacob
April 7, 2010 11:22 am
The kroq listeners may not be considered a praying bunch I think I can speak for all of us in saying Ralph that you and your family are in our prayers, and may god give you and your little girl strength.
Scott
April 7, 2010 12:12 pm
Ditto to everything that has been said on this board. We are thinking of you and your family, Ralph!
Sergio
April 7, 2010 12:32 pm
My condolences to Ralph and Kari..sorry about the sudden passing of your Son.
Dieter E.
April 7, 2010 3:28 pm
So So Sorry to hear the news! I was in total shock when I heard. I missed the news on Monday because of work, and was wondering why you have been gone this week. Heartbreaking answer to my question! Ralph, Kari and Olivia-all my love and care for all of you to make it through your sudden loss.
Linh
April 7, 2010 3:32 pm
My deepest condolence to Ralph and his wife Kari. I’m so sorry for the lost of your son Lincoln James. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Take care.
Johanna
April 7, 2010 4:13 pm
Hearing about the loss of Baby Lincoln was devastating. As a new mom, I can only imagine how difficult this time must be. Sending my deepest and most heartfelt condolences to the entire Garman family.
ang
April 7, 2010 4:31 pm
I’m heartbroken to hear the news…my prayers go out Ralph, Kari and Olivia
Tammy
April 7, 2010 5:15 pm
Ralph you have given us so much joy over the years. My own kids are late for school some mornings because we are all laughing so hard at the “showbiz beat” and other antics. Thank you so much.
Our hearts and prayers are with you and you and your family.
Rima
April 7, 2010 5:47 pm
So very sorry for Ralph and Kari’s loss but happy for their gain, as well. Ralph brings us, the listeners, so much joy everyday it kills me to hear about him and his family having to endure so much pain. I, as well as every other listener I’m sure, will be thinking about and praying for Ralph and the rest of family.
Jessica
April 7, 2010 8:23 pm
So sorry to hear of your loss. My husband and I had a son two months early ourselves, and know how hard it is to have a baby in the NICU. A year from now, you won’t believe how things will have changed. Stay strong for the baby. Best wishes Ralph to your family.
Debra
April 7, 2010 9:47 pm
Ralph, you have made me laugh so hard, it brought tears to my eyes. On 9/11 you were there for us, while we all cried together. Right now in your sorrow, we are all praying for you and a
Ron
April 8, 2010 12:27 am
Ralph..there are so many of us that are praying and thinking of you and your family at this difficult time. Much love to all of you.
Rohde
April 8, 2010 9:17 am
As a new father myself…there are no words. None at all. Sorry for your loss…
Doris
April 8, 2010 10:38 am
Ralph and Kari ~ I am so so sad to hear the news about your son. As a parent, this is a situation no one should have to bare. My heart goes out to you both and hope your healing will be made easier knowing you have tons and tons of fans who care about you and would do anything to help you both through this. So sorry again !
dan from dc
April 14, 2010 7:55 am
My deepest condolences to Ralph and Kari. Praying for both of you and Olivia. Take all the time you need Ralph, you are worth the wait! Cant wait to hear you on the radio again. God Bless.
avf22
April 14, 2010 8:05 am
…my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family…I am so sorry.
Susan
April 14, 2010 8:12 am
Ralph & Kari
I am so sorry for your loss. You guys and Olivia are in my prayers.
Mark Rothman
April 14, 2010 8:26 am
I’m amazed how much KROQ and the strangers on a radio program became part of my life. I’m old for a KROQ listener – 47. I started listening when KROQ was an upstart station broadcasting new wave music and static from Pasadena. In college I had my sister record a few hours of the show so I could listen. Then when my first son was born, Drew’s triplets were born around the same time and I felt the pain of the difficulties they had coming into the world.
Now I share your pain and sadness Ralph and Kari at the loss of Lincoln. May you be comforted amongst all the mourners. I can remember when Ralph first premiered, doing movie reviews of movies he hadn’t seen. (I loved that.) Since then Ralph has become part of my routine every morning. I can hardly wait until you’re back, not so much because of what it will mean for me, but because it will mean Ralph mustered enough strength to take a step forward after this horrible tragedy. I also suspect you are dealing with the health challenges Olivia faces as a premie, and I wish both Ralph and Kari much strength so you can be the best parents you can be for her.
Kimberly
April 14, 2010 8:45 am
I listen to kroq every morning. Very sad time for Ralph and his wife. My daughter Emma was born two months prematurely in February 2002. She was in the NICU for quite some time. I know the anxiety and the fear that you are feeling daily and you are both in my thoughts.
Cristobal
April 14, 2010 8:47 am
=(
Lorena
April 14, 2010 8:52 am
Ralph, I have loved you and your comedy ever since you came on the air 11 years ago. I have since moved to another state and to hear this news today just breaks my heart. I feel like this tragedy has happened to one of my family members.
My sincerest condolences to you, Kari and family.
KBShowfan
April 14, 2010 9:42 am
My prayers are with you and your family. My husband and I have been listening to the Kevin and Bean show for years and truly feel as though you are all like close friends. May God be with you in this time of grief and watch over your little Olivia . God Bless
Yvonne
April 14, 2010 10:05 am
My heartfelt and deepest condolences to Ralph and his family.
JRS
April 14, 2010 10:17 am
My deepest condolences to Ralph and his family. I’m sorry to hear about this, but please remember that the K&B (and RG) nation stands by behind you always.
irma
April 14, 2010 10:50 am
I just heard the news today and begant to cry instantly. My sincerest condolences. I have a daughter and son and couldn’t imagine what you and your wife are going through. We miss you on air.
irma
April 14, 2010 10:55 am
I just heard the news today. I have a young son and daughter and I can’t imagine what you are going through. We miss you on air.
Annette
April 14, 2010 12:50 pm
Ralph and Family,
Find peace in knowing your son Lincoln will live in your hearts always. His memories will once again bring a smile back to your faces. God bless you in your time of need.
Gina
April 14, 2010 1:08 pm
I couldn’t even imagine…..I’m so terribly sorry for your loss.
sandy
April 14, 2010 5:27 pm
Ralph & Kari… There are no words that can heal your wounds… My family went thru this same thing last year. My heart goes out to you… May Olivia get stronger each and every day.. and Lincoln will always be in our prayers.
gesin family
April 14, 2010 6:53 pm
ralph…thank you for making me laugh every morning on my way to work. please know that you are in the thoughts of every parent and fan of the kevin and bean family.
Megan
April 14, 2010 8:08 pm
Ralph and family,
I have no words to say to express how sorry I am for your loss. I am praying for you.
Brian Y
April 15, 2010 8:22 am
My favorite part of the K&B show is Ralph’s various segments on the show, so it saddens me very much to hear of your loss. Take care and all the best to you and your family.
weston
April 15, 2010 4:58 pm
I am sorrry for your lost Ralph and kari I hope and pray that your daughter good will and my condolences
Karen
April 15, 2010 7:57 pm
Donation Done. I am so sorry Ralph and Kari are going throught his most difficult of times which is suppsed to be the most beautiful of times. Isn’t it silly to donate and write a sympathy note to a “radio” personality? As you say, Nope.com. I feel like I know you all and care about you and your families. Peace be with you all.
Blanca
April 15, 2010 8:23 pm
I have been a loyal fan of the Kevin & Bean show for over 15yrs. I was very sadden to hear of Ralph’s and Kari’s loss. My sincerest condolences but wishing you all the hope and faith to help you get through this difficult time.
Jane
April 15, 2010 10:01 pm
I lost a son, one day old, in 1971, the pain never goes away, but does subside…my consolences to you and your wife. I’m so, so sorry you have go through this enormous heartache. Thx for making my commute into LA so much fun……that’s all I know of you, but right now I feel I’m right next to you……
Dana Q
April 15, 2010 10:33 pm
As many of the other faithful listeners have said you have become like family and I am so saddened to hear of your loss. Nothing can be worse than what you are going through right now. I know that Olivia feels the love that you both have and she will fill your lives with so much happiness. Bless you both. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Odily
April 15, 2010 11:22 pm
Ralpf and Kerry: I can’t imagine your pain! I am a mom and just the thought os loosing my daughther makes me crazy, I been 1 (626) 339-8947listening to you for so many years that I feel part of your family. I am very sad for the lose of your little baby son, my heart aches for you and your wife. I am praying for little Olivia, I hope she is getting better and stronger! I miss you a lot every morning but please come back to us when you feel strong to be with all your listeners! We love you Ralph, we are sad with you… Be strong for your wife and little Olivia. Love you man..
Barbara Irwin
April 16, 2010 10:54 am
Love and condolences to Ralph, Kari and their familes for this unbelievable loss. Your little angel Lincoln will be forever in our hearts. Love and best wishes for little Olivia to be stronger every day. She will be the light in the darkness of this sad time.
Scott
April 16, 2010 11:14 am
Deepest condolences to Ralph and Kari
Narine
April 17, 2010 11:55 pm
wow, I had no idea. I am so sorry.
Stevo
April 18, 2010 9:35 am
I used to wonder why God does the things that he does. I put my trust in the lord that he does things for a greater reason than any human can understand. I take comfort in the fact that committing my life to him WILL allow me to see and be with my loved ones for eternity. Ralph-your son is in good hands! My thoughts and prayers to you and your family. God bless.
nicole G
April 19, 2010 11:27 am
Ralph,
Find comfort in knowing your daughter has a guardian angle brother in heaven.
Tony
April 23, 2010 8:19 am
My sincerest condolences. I know how you feel, my wife and I went thru the same thing when we lost our twin boys. My thoughts and prayers with you and your family. Much love.
Marilyn Carlos
May 20, 2010 8:31 am
My sympathy and prayers to Ralph and his family.